Nice and rough

It took mom ten years to stop asking me every time we spoke when I was going to divorce "that son of a .... I married." Suffice it to say, the hub and I swore we would never have mom live with us. Never swear anything. Am I being selfish? Right now her comfort and safety are primary and my employment is primary. She doesn't want to leave her home and her pets - and I cannot work remotely from her home. (no wifi and my phone is not capable of becoming a hotspot) Again, if you know her - she is not a woman who concedes. It would be easier for me to have her safe under my roof. - but like Ike and Tina - "we never do anything nice, easy." (if you get the reference - you are my people)